Got A Small Package? Studies Show It Really Doesn't Matter!
Perhaps the most terrible prank that a man can be the butt of in his lifetime is being told that his private are too tiny. No man would want to be ridiculed that way, right? Virility has long been strongly linked with longer privates, among other things. This is the reason why males who believe their private part is undersized experience anxiety, thinking that they would not be able to satisfy their partners in bed.
However, according to a research released in June 2006 issue of British Journal of Urology, such a notion is completely unfounded in real life. According to British Urologists Kevan Welie and Ian Eardley, while the factors that play part in the “attractiveness” of men to women are many, the size of a man’s private part doesn’t seem to be a big factor for most females . In short, contrary to popular belief that women want their partners to have big privates, women put more emphasis on other things in order to say that they are “happy” or “satisfied” with their relationships.
But if this is the case, then Why are men still so concerned about their penile size? The report brings to attention some very fascinating figures. Eighty-five percent of those surveyed women said that they were satisfied with their partner’s private part size, but just 55 % of all men who were surveyed were satisfied with their private part size. What can we conclude from these numbers? It seems to suggest that men have the tendency to overestimate their partner’s expectation of them. And because of this “idea” that they could not possibly satisfy their partners due to the size of their private part, men didn’t see that their partners never really cared much about the size of their private part in the first place.
Specialists identify this type of anxiety as SPS or Small private part Syndrome. And what’s more interesting is that men who are afflicted by this in fact have a normal private part size. It’s just in their mind that they believe they have really small sex organs, which as a result, they become uncomfortable showing their naked body to their partners. This embarrassment and uncomfortable feeling, in turn, makes it hard for these men to get aroused or sustain an erection.
Due to the fact that SPS is a disorder that is psychological in nature, it is advisable that men who experience it must get psychotherapy. But the problem is,” Would a person experiencing SPS readily accept help from others?” The main obstacle to providing the right course of action is the fact that most men would rather want to keep their problem theirs than to share it to others, even to experts who obviously could provide the much needed help.
So what do most of these men do? A number of them secretly purchase outrageous devices online that they think could help them. These gadgets are put directly on the male privates claiming that it improves the circulation of blood to the affected area resulting to a growth in the size of the private part. Some consider undergoing private part enlargement surgery. In this procedure, medical professionals either slice a portion of the ligament in the private part, making the private part to extend further or the patient may opt to just have fats from other parts of his body transplanted on his private part to make it bigger. Some individuals meanwhile choose a safer approach and just buy male enhancement supplements. Though different in approach, all of the solutions mentioned above are done to support men in order to help them get back their confidence.